I've only been away from my children on my own three times - never for longer than two or three days. I attended two school reunions and took one trip to visit family. Each time, things were a little different when I returned.
Certainly, the children coped quite well without me - my husband takes great care of them and makes it fun. But there is something different each time I return. Last time, my younger son was quite upset with me and things took a few days to return to normal. This time, when I departed I left a toddler and a preschooler and I seem to have returned to a little boy and a first grader. They are noticeably older, more advanced, more independent, more mature. Noticing this was at once both impressive and heartbreaking.
My five year old has made me promise that I will never again leave for more than one day and night. After this experience, I have to agree. I don't want to miss a moment!
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