Along the way, I've also realized that there is a major organizational project I've badly neglected. Maybe it's because it involves preparing for some unsettling possibilities - such as the death of my spouse, myself, or both of us.
My husband and I recognize the importance of having life insurance, mainly because we have children. We want to make sure that if something happens to one or both of us, we have financially provided for their care until they are adults. We don't want the surviving parent or the guardians to struggle financially when they should instead be focusing on our children.
We've taken care of the life insurance and have identified guardians but have yet to take care of some other important details, such as:
- a Last Will (This is used to distribute property to beneficiaries, specify last wishes, and name guardians for minor children. It is an important part of any estate plan. Without one, the courts will make these critical decisions for you.),
- a Living Trust (This spells out how your assets are to be managed in the event you are unable to take care of yourself - and by whom (you should specify a Durable Financial Power of Attorney). In the event of death, it is used to transfer property to beneficiaries. But unlike a last will, a living trust is not usually subject to probate court, which can take years and cost thousands in court fees.), and
- a Living Will (This spells out your preferences regarding medical care should you no longer be able to speak for yourself. It also typically includes specifying a Durable Health Care Power of Attorney, so you have someone able to make health care decisions on your behalf.)
I thoroughly expect that once I'm done with the form and my attachments, I will realize how much I should simplify the details of our life - which should make it a very green exercise, indeed.
As I move through this process, I'll leave updates here with any new information I find - and I welcome any advice you might have to offer.
2 comments:
What an excellent post! You're a gem! Happy New Year!
Wow... what a great post. A very necessary thing, yet so easy to "avoid" doing. I have nothing in place ~ NOTHING. And being a single mom, it is very irresponsible of me to leave Trinity in the wind (so to speak)
Thanks for sharing this, a good reminder for me to get off my butt and make sure she is taken care of in case..... well, you know .
Stupid MORTALITY!!!! LOL
Good luck to you. I'll be following along for some pointers... ;)
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